Careful with the dirt. Remember that there is life after the divorce with the mother of your children.
Then again.. in the same way negative campaign ads work, I guess dirt does too.
My lawyer knows more than anyone needs to know about me. I went full disclosure and felt like a sh*t. But it makes their job easier. If you're preparing to fight dirty, make sure your lawyer knows your skeletons... or at least ask the lawyer how much they want to know.. or need to know.