Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
She needs to let you show her that you can, indeed, forgive her.


So HOW do I get her to see that? I thought I did pretty good Monday night when I was telling her about the lies OM had told her that I knew about (so how many more are there I don't know about?). Did that sink in with her and now she's struggling with it?

Thanks H. I'm definitely going to try to get her to Retro. The last time I asked she was still pretty fresh in the fog of the affair ending (might not even have been over in her mind at that point), so I'm hopeful that she'll be more open to trying it out when I ask this time.

Thanks a lot guys. I really hope she responds to my email with at least something.....


Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.