AG: I stopped posting to you a long time ago when it became apparent that you were the most unhappy, self centered bitch around. I've listened to years of your whining. You USED to have friends on the bb. Now you latch ont anyone who will post to you and use them till you piss them off (which you have done to everyone). You have no friends in real life or here. You have no life. For such a successful lawyer - you spend a hell of a lot of time writing on a divorce board for a marriage that only lasted 5 years. You've spent longer than that carrying on about it. You put every person here down when in fact - the good people here have much more of a life than you and have worked hard to achieve it. In fact - I think that makes THEM the over achievers - not you!
You put down the Westerners so I guess that includes me - a non- American. But when has anyone here refused to associate with others because of social or culteral differences? I don't know if anyone is black or white or yellow or blue (except Smurfs - LOL) - it doesn't matter. We all came here as a result of a devestation and we have helped each other. Who cares what is going on tday as opposed to yesterday. Things change. People evolve. Rules change. The one thing that hasn't is you as far as moving forward. You still talk about getting a R. You make no serious effort. About adoption. Not much action there these days. You wallow in your own self-pity but turn it back on everyone else. Now to pull your "heritage" card is beyond ridiculous. Do I make excuses for myself because I am Canadian? r does Lissie because she is Cuban? Gosh, no, we are proud of our heritage but surely don't limit ourselves to our "own kind". But then - as I recall - after you were done socializing with some of us at DB get togethers a few years back, suddenly we were all BAD. Horrible people. Not sure when you rewrote history. How many of these people do you stay in touch with today? Most run far and fast from you. Wonder why?
You are caustic and bitter. You love to hear yourself talk. You drone on endlessly about your angst yet tell us how happy you are. You are one sad individual. But why do I write this - you THRIVE on the attention. That is why I hold back as much as I do. And also because you are not worth it.
The people who need serious help the most are usually the last to recognize it. Since you have a lousy R with your family (yes, we remember how you didn't want to help with holiday meals etc) - and have no friends except the Desperate housewives you mock behind their backs - your imaginary friends won't tell you the truth about how nuts you really are.
My sis and I were talking last year after you took shots at both her and myself (hell, we don't believe we're special - you have done this to hundreds of DBers) - you were saying your goodbyes then. How long does it take to leave. You change your mind as often as I change my clothes.
You were leaving when I left to come here. You're still here! You were leaving last year. And the year before. You are still here! Sounds like an addiction to me.
This bb will go on quite happily without you. You do not provide anything positive. And that is what we all need.
Let us go on our merry little ways. And we will talk about our peach trees and our lemonade stands, our families and our new Rs or how to get there. Our dillemmas and our solutions. Why not go back to India since you are obviously out of your element here?
What a waste of board space I have just taken up. But I am appalled at what you have done to SG and the rest of the good people here.
