Our stories are very similar. While H wanted to "renew our vows" and looked forward to our next 25 years - he was telling her a different story. And she was telling her H a different one too. Everyone kept saying "we're just friends". RIGHT!
My X now says our M was over for years and he was saying he was just friends with her the whole time we were seperated...then he married her 14 days after the divorce was final Like no one was smart enough to know what was going on. And I am sue he never told her that we also spoke to a priest about getting married in the Catholic church in the year before he met her....guess that wouldn't work with the story that our marriage had been over for years. Oh, and the new Mrs. X's first marriage ended when her H cheated on her....so how she could do what she did dumbfounds me!!! But then again, she is apparently as selfish and self-serving as the X, so they belong together.
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