would you leave the bedroom because YOU want to or because it's 'the little boy inside of you' telling you to spite her?
what message are you wanting to or trying to send to your W?
Although not as serious as filing for divorce, leaving the MBR is a powerful thing and if you do it, you must 'follow thru' with it. You can't move out today and be back in there tomorrow.
I have been sleeping downstairs on the couch now for almost 4-6 months. I hate it. But I am in a divorce process and the kids now know that I am not 'with mommy'. It gives a confused message to the kids if I were to hang out up there like everything is normal.
Think.
Think.
Get the N.U.T.S. book...learn about letting go of 'the little boy inside'.
As for backing off, I think that you've said your piece. Now, less talking and total listening is POWER.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
