I do try to remember Kat. I appreciate the reminder. I know it's not going to get better as quickly as I'd like, but I just have such a hard time with her seemingly lack of remorse. But I also know W is such a stubborn hard head that she may be feeling those things, but to admit it to me would be the worst thing in her mind.
Last night while I was sitting there watching the Tour de France she was reading a book and sniffling quite a bit. I took a peek out of the corner of my eye and it looked like she was crying some. I don't know that for sure, but it looked like it. So maybe she's just not able to deal with the fact that she caused this and doesn't know what to do to get out of it.
I know not to get my expectations up too high waiting for a response to the email, but again, it will go a long way towards how I proceed.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.