Funny, I did the same, bent over backwards, waited on, massaged, tried everything to please. Very little back. At some point WAS's just shut down mentally regardless of our actions. We just continue to try to please as it is our nature. We do what we would like done for us, but it never happens.
Try to get some sleep, I tried and had little luck and now have to go to work and try to pretend to function there. Life is such a crappy rollercoaster, I can't stand it.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08