I am proud of you for not just sitting around and waiting for him to come to you but looking into what was wrong and realising what needs to be fixed. I bet you are eager to "fix" things and it seems you are getting your chance. Sex can be a very cruicial "bond" between a couple and as a friend of mine used to tell me, "sometimes it all comes down to sex" and often people overlook what those special moments actually mean. For me -and I personally had a few issues with it- making love can be the ultimate proof of "letting go" and surrender yourself to your spouse/bf. And even it is fun, it takes some courage to just let go... Love K