arrrg. still not asleep.
Thanks for the "support", SS.

I wanted to write, that it's not just about money, even though that's all that I mentioned in my earlier post.

To use her phrase, I "bend over backwards" for her. If she asks me for something, I try to give it to her. Even when she DOESNT ask for something, I try to be nice to her, and give her/do for her things that I think she would like.
I put so much time and effort into being considerate of her, and her feelings, and what she'd like, and doing positive things for us.
She does very little back.
She does various stuff "for the children". but almost nothing for ME, directly.
Whereas I put in a whoole lot of effort, and thought, and consideration for her, directly.

Like I said, it's not about the money. I wrote about the money, mainly just because it's easily quantifiable.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle