Same old stuff from H just with a bit more Bluster LOL .
I just love you Dave!
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I also like Dave's idea of not engaging in one of his endless convos. You've heard it all before and do you really need to hear it for the upteenth time? No right? I think those convos are cheeseless tunnels and they resolve nothing.(Jen)
You're both right, same ol' stuff.
My reasoning;
-Let him finally have to leave a VM that doesn't have to do w/S5, & wait a week to talk to me in person.
-Return the call quickly, b/c he won't be expecting it. (He sounded shocked)
-Show how calm & cool I am, no emotion.
-Let him know where I stand on the OW in the neighborhood (b/f he signs a lease) & that I don't want kids exposed to person that would start R w/ married man & father. I didn't do this at all for the last year, in fact, almost the opposite & it wasn't helping any.
-Mainly, b/c after talking to CVA & him telling me what he would think of his W being w/ another man, as double standard as it is, I thought it was better for him to know that we're just friends. It's true, although he may not believe me, there's at least doubt now.
So, I know I said I was going to be here tomorrow for the S pick up, I've changed my mind. I've said enough & can now go back to dark, he only needs to see a little light from me right now.
