you may want to start with my earlier posts. It may lead to some insight into how your W is feeling.
Everhope is right, women have checked out emotionally a very long time before they meet an OM. They just haven't left physically yet. A lot of women work on the ship life boat system. Never jump ship, until you have a life boat. I'm not speaking financially, I'm talking emotional support.
take care, read a lot, & hang in there.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
