((lodo)),

I'm just checking in on you. It is strange to spend so many years with a person, & then suddenly not recognize them anymore.

Those years & memories do exist. Whether they were shared or not, is all perspective, but they existed for you. She knows they existed, she just may view them differently than you.

It sounds like the Chef is in a pretty good mood considering. Now the smell of rotting fruit....is that a pleasant smell ??? \:\) Cause you had me right until there.

We had a beautiful night here too, cool enough for a hoodie, warm enough for shorts. Perfect for strolling the beach.

take care

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.