LMAO Tink just now caught that, now that is humor!!
You know by me helping her out as a friend it felt really good! I am not saying I would drop everything for her right now but it did feel good to help out someone. I would do the same for any of my other friends why not my W.
Brian and Bill as far as the PMA goes it is still spotty at times, there are moments when I want to just cry and then there are others where I want to scream! But it is getting better, but the accpetance part is still very hard. I do not want to accept the fact that she is going to D me but is something I am going to have to face and am at one point going to HAVE to accept it, it sucks big time but such is life!
I have a new motto now: dum vita est, spes est--while there is life, there is hope!!
Stay strong everyone!
Ted
Ted...
Your 1st sentence is a great attitude to have, if you can make that statement of doing the same for any other friends then you have reached a new level of detachment my brother good for you.
I truly understand where you are at, the mixed up jumble of feelings rips you apart. Moments of contentment, followed by anguish and anxiety, to full out tears, that is when your reach for that level of friendship detachment and look into the mirror and say I WILL be alright. Tackle 1 thing at a time, don't be like me and get bogged down it will leave you helpless stay positive and take 1 thing at a time and I will try in my sitch.
I like your new mantra, I may adopt it if you don't mind.
