Donna, thank you. I don't know when the shift occurred, but it did. I am very sad he doesn't want to be my H anymore, but I can still treat him like a friend. Make sense?

I am more sad for our kids, who no longer see 2 people in love, hugging, kissing, glances, closeness, all that jazz. In fact, when they stopped questioning why Daddy slept on the couch (used to ask me every morning for months), it was harder for me than to hear their questions. Because it was like they just accepted that married Mommy and Daddy slept apart. Sigh...