Quote: It doesn't mean you have to agree with his "weak" decision, but there will come a day where you are going to have to deal with this too...
my dad is my dad and I will see him when I see him, I know I have to accept that my parents aren't together anymore. I don't however have to accept his girlfriend with him. I do have every right to ask that he not ask me to be around her the other alternative would be for him to keep asking (doesn't happen often) and keep pissing me off. I do not want anything to do with her. it is bad enough that I must tolerate his poor decisions and accept him for him...I will not accept this woman in my life nor will I bring her into my childrens lives...he hasn't married her and will not (actually during my parents settlement he was asked what if he remarried...his response was that the only woman he would marry would be my mother. huh???!!) he does not live with her and will not..so then why should I accept her into my life...she should accept that he has a family and not all of them will accept her...is what you must deal with when you knowingly continue an a with a married man.
regarding your thoughts on your 10 anniversary...sorry it was a bummy one..but at least you will have more...I celebrated (or rather didn't celebrate) our 5th anniversary home alone while h was at his apartment possibly still getting a d. there will be many more anniversaries or wont be...but I will have no more dd's to bring home from the hospital.
self pity I know...I'm entitled though aren't I?
I'll be ok.
rescue training at the lake tonight with the ambulance complany.
got a 92 on my quiz last night.
h called at 9 this morning (I like when he calls early)
I'm just sad but I know I'll be ok. got spoiled with h being around so much over the weekend...maybe we'll do something nice this sunday as a family.
