Thanks FIb - I backed off - never continued the convo. Just took my boys to their game tonight and she called because she wanted to come but it started to rain.
I had really planned on giving space anyway - just felt I did need to say what was said. I decided that was enough though and didn't do anything else. I guess sometimes you just have to get the feel for it. Maybe it was a mistake in the first place but I felt I needed to say it for me. But it's done, I won;t push anymore. Would you sleep in the normal bed tonight or move to the other room??
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.