Soon this won't be your problem it will be someone else's, and that part you can find relief in.
We are back to him practically living at the house again. Did I mention that?? He has nowhere to go (his dad will NOT turn the A/C on, seriously like 90+ degrees at his dad's). I know if I would give him 'tude about it, I would get the 'my house too' comment. I have told him a few rules he needs to live by if he is going to stay a few nights here and there: phone on vibrate, not coming to the house after he goes to bars, and sharing the housework (which he always has done, and then some).
I need space.
He needs a down payment for a place.
That is why I am rushing the refi of the house. It'll be in my name before the D.