I'm sorry for the short and seemingly flippant answer, but I'm serious. There have been SO many times in my life, including during my infidelity sitch last summer with my wayward wife, that I prayed SO hard, and thought that God just wasn't hearing my prayers.
Only to realize later that He was, only he was answering them in a completely different way than what I was expecting.
Yes, sometimes the "answers" never even did come, but so many other times, I could look back and see what I THOUGHT I needed at the time, would NOT have been best for me.
Pray for strength to do the right thing, and for courage to do it. Pray for wisdom, and for God to send you people and resources to help you do what He wants you to do.
