BeingMe, I REALLY want to hear more about your thoughts on H maybe being afraid that my changes WILL last. I'm not sure I'm following your train of thought there, so could you elaborate? Please give me the benefit of your thinking!
Just imagine if he is sitting on the fence thinking if he leaves you, and goes with OW, and 10 years down the road, finds out that you are still the intriguing woman you are now, after all your changes. Won't he feel a fool then? While he is stuck with an insecure, overweight woman, (and maybe a few kids), and she will not trust him very much ("if they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you" quote from Dr. Phil), so will be somewhat clingy.
So, he is possibly thinking "if I stay, Dawn might go back to what she was before, but if I leave, I might lose out on a wife the way she is now". MLCers tend to be quite a confused lot, if that is what he is suffering from.
Hope I made sense here.
Yes, now I understand...I think you are right! He did actually say, about 6 months ago, that if we didn't have all of this negative history behind us, he'd be really intrigued by me...
Originally Posted By: BeingMe
BTW, you could pose as a man, and entice the OW away from your H. Hehehehehe!!!!! Wouldn't that be soooo delicious! You could play the knight whose into young, voluptious wenches ...! Okay, I think my brain is getting outta hand now. Your H may be the 'loyal' type, but she might not! Bye for now.
That's the best laugh I've had all day!! Thanks so much!
And now, back to work....
Peace, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
