I can not answer the question but I'll tell you whats going on in my stitch. My wife still retains the keys to her house. Technically this is still her house. Her name is on the deed and title. We are still married. She would come home everyday and do laundry. Recently her washer got fixed by her daddy. Now she doesn't come everyday. Now she came today looking for sons baptism certificate which he never had for some reason. So whey did she come to the house. To drive me crazy. Who knows. She misses her house, she wants to make sure I'm not making a mess in her house. I don't know.
I think her having the keys and coming here is like bread crumbs. I never used to make the bed. Now I do. I leave the house as clean and neat as possible so that when she does pop in. She has nothing to say.
I asked my attorney this question and she said I could not change the locks. They only think I needed to worry about was getting a custody schedule, which has been somewhat impossible so far in my sitch. I'm at a standstill.
Now if you are going to take the car off her that is going to cause problems. It is not going to get you closer to your goal. Who's name is the car in? Who is it insured too? Part of the divorce proceedings may be pocession of the car anyway. You are going to have to talk to you own lawyer. I know in my area you can get a lawyer for the first hour for about 200 bucks. Then if you wish to proceed its a retainer fee. In the hour I think you can hash out all these questions.
If I were you I would not feed any information to her lawyer. It is her lawyer not yours. He is looking out for her not you. They are the scum of the earth in my opinion. Sometimes necessary scums of the earth.
Don't ask son in law to get involved over the keys or phone issues. She is most likely going to keep the car. Is it really worth pushing this further down the pike. If she is serious about serving you then you can take action. Remove her from the car insurance etc. I haven't changed my locks and it looks like she is done taking stuff from the house. It doesn't look like yours is trying the violate it by coming back. Call the sherif and ask if you can change the locks. If it is an apartment tell you landlord you are doing it. It is their building. For the safety of their building they may want the locks changed. Your landlord may even be familar with these situations for your area. You see I haven't taken action in my sitch, because for me it is a sign of love. Take whatever you want it is just stuff. I don't care about stuff. I'm giving it the old St. Francis attitude. I don't need anything. Really the more stuff you have the more you worry about it. Now the valuables mine took all of those. I don't want them. I have the house.
This grandson stuff is kindy loopy too. Why are they not allowing you to see him on his birthday? Oh, she will be there. That is just crappy and non civil.
