I don't mean to sound ungrateful, I guess I wanted something outside of what is already here. Guess I am just being selfish. Not good.
kat
First of all, you're not selfish and even if you were you deserve to be going through what you're going! I plan to be really selfish and nasty when my D is getting to the end and eats lots of chocolate (have you done chocolate therapy yet?). If you get through this, you can get through anything, right?
Hey, today at my kids' swimming lessons, I was talking to one of the moms and we have so much in common! (She used to work where I did and knew all my co-workers). She was telling me about her 1st marriage, she discovered him cheating with OW, and tried to get back with him 5 times (went to the D L all 5 times and put down retainers) but finally ended it. She's now happily remarried, and has at least 2 kids with her 2nd husband (I've met her 2 D's). She said she really believes God has better things in store. I believe that too! ((((Kat))))