We think we've got it and we say "I AM focusing on myself," but we're so busy looking at our M that we miss what's going on. Until that day when it finally hits us that the M isn't being saved. Then we get it and move on with making ourselves happy.
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But I think that's the whole point of DB is making yourself happy and not looking to other people or things (I used to think a new house might help) or stuff like that to make you happy. Or at least that's what I've learned from here. I think you finally "got" DBing when you realized that...Karen
