In my snippet convo, I didn't add when he brought up the 4th, I said again what a good time it was...yes, he had a great time, even though "I knew I knew the only reason you didn't head down to the marina was b/c I pushed it."
I did my best to keep it positive & stop the spiral, w/out giving up anything that would lead to "Good, back to status quo, I don't have to give up anything."
Tomorrow I was planning on being here when he comes for S5, keeping to kids stuff/logistics only, no R or happy talk. Maybe heading out the door for something, etc.
