So I guess my question is do you think your H not coming or you not going to him will bring your closer to your goal? Do you think more time apart is what is needed? Maybe giving your H more space and giving yourself more time to regroup?
W2G - these are good questions. I'm not sure that I have any answers right now but I do know my H is still very confused. If we do see each other, I'd prefer that he come visit us, like you said, away from OW. I won't suggest anything unless he brings it up again.
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