Oh, and then I get an email from H clarifying if I'm still seeing my IC and no wonder we're short on funds. Yes, still seeing my IC!! I need all the help I can get to keep putting one foot in front of the other, be stable for D, find a job, do my current job and deal with it ending, etc. Apparently he is holding off seeing his IC while we're in MC and expected me to do the same. Ummmm--it was his decision to destroy our family in order to do whatever he wants to do, leaving me to pick up the pieces, and now he's begrudging me the only support I have.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012