How long did you wait before being D and starting your interviews if I may ask.
Sure.... I started lining them up the day after the D was final.........
I made it totally clear to my exW I wanted to be with her and work on the M more than anything....... I made tons of noticeable changes... She told me over and over there was no chance for our M.... She just wanted out.......... She had 90 chances (days) to change her mind.... I also gave her one "last chance" by sending her an e-mail "opening the door" roughly five months after the D......
You must also keep in mind I flat out told her I would NOT be having sex/ML until I was married.... So, she knew where I stood... I was not out "playing around" for a while and then wanting to work on our M... We had the following exchange:
---------------------------------------------------------------- WAW: You should date. If you find a woman to have sex with, you should.
My Reply: I plan on having lots of sex with my new wife.
Note: I am doing EXACTLY that now..... ----------------------------------------------------------------
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
