Ms. Imp and her Magic Kumquat

[girlfromipanema]

I don't know where I belong (forum) so I guess I'll stick to Newcomers for one more thread. I have too many difficult decisions ahead of me and I won't allow trying to decide which forum to post in to paralyze me anymore today. Phew.

Life changes like this are overwhelming. Probably the saddest thing for me right at this moment is giving up my Magic Kumquat (for those that don't know, she's my little kitty I rescued last summer). And giving up my home. And the OM. The scariest think right now is... well it's all kind of scary. But, I'm hopeful about my future. I'm very grateful for many things. My husband is making a huge mistake letting this girl get away.

Love, Ms. Imp

[gForce]

FIRST!

If which forum to post in is the biggest decision for today, then you are having a good day. Your husband is an idiot. If I weren't a married man, I'd...
...well I better not say, because I'm a married man.

[lodo]

Wow - you guys really invest a lot in choosing a forum, huh? Not me, I've been in at least 4 now.

Life can change on a dime, girl. Best we can do is try to make sense of the new direction.

OM? Did I miss something?

lodo

[lodo]

Weird - wasn't there just a post from kalni before mine?

[girlfromipanema]

lodo, I never put much thought into choosing a forum, but I think choosing to move to Separated or Surviving is kind of making my reality more real...

About the OM:

I've started to develop feelings for another man. I think these feelings have developed into LOVE. I'm not kidding. And, I think he feels the same. He lives on my street and visits with me every evening before my husband gets home from work. This morning I was having my coffee on the porch and he joined me. He's not much to look at, but he's super sweet. He's in pretty rough shape - a diabetic, skin and bones and up there in years. Bless his heart. I think he's lonely and wants some lovin' during his senior years. Who could blame him?

I really need to stop my feelings from growing. I cannot get too attached to this old guy. What am I to do????

I was referring to Mr. Bizarro, the neighbor's old neglected cat. Thinking he was on death's door, I didn't want to get too attached. It became a standing joke to refer to him as the OM.

[girlfromipanema]

If I weren't a married man, I'd...
...well I better not say, because I'm a married man.

This makes me doubly happy. First and foremost, I'm happy for YOU. Indeed you are a married man, when just this time last week we were prepared for you to be on the market. Secondly, you're a sweet, lovely man and you always, ALWAYS put a smile on my face.

(((((((g)))))))

[Kalni]

Where is my post?

[gForce]

Dunno, it was a triple post then it disappeared. I thought you finally got banned.

[Kalni]

Me, banned? You 'll all be very dark with no Susnhine in this place... very dark...

I'll get to you tomorrow on patterns.
S

[smith18]

I can understand her getting banned as she is responsible for creating the alternate universe.