I'm so sorry hm. Hugs to you...

Your h sounds like he's read the mlc textbook and is following along. He's going to do what he wants to do no matter what you or anyone else says.

Do something nice for yourself today. You deserve it!
More hugs...

me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08