So I'm still struggling (obviously). Wondering if it's a good idea to ask her to lunch, or if I should leave her alone. After today's posts, I'm not sure if I should be making her initiate?


Me: 30
W: 27
Married: 9/2007
ILUBNILWU: 1/2008
W moved out 5/24/2008
W suicide 8/25/2009