i think thats great to look great ( ohhh la la) and chat for a bit then go out...it sounds like you have it all figured out..if he wants to talk more say you'd love to another time and for him to call you...make him feel special at the same time as giving you and him space...
remember casual friends...and you have it down pat--your first paragraph above sums it up- you rock! keep us posted!!
he is making excuses to come see you so thats VERY good...
you dont have to be super distracted...just have plans and leave after you guys talk a bit- does that sound good?
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