well, whatever she is, gf, ow the point is that why would you want to tell other people? if you truly want to know (details hurt, so watch out) and he's able to tell you then there is no reason why you'd have to tell anyone else. The least he could do is at least to behave like a human being before leaving, but I guess that is not possible, what a shame, I'm sorry you have to go through this hon.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.