Sending positive vibes to my H!

[pisces9]

very true- my actions through this sep have changed as well and he has seen that which has allowed him to change...so i really dont need him to say he will never leave bc i will just have to TRUST him and know that he would never do this again...same for me- this DB behavior is how i will be forever...so its probably scary for him as well to see if this is "real"....

thanks for telling me about how you and your wife resolved things- i see it similar to my sitch...i would never do the blame game thing bc we did that at the begiing of all this for a few days so we both know EXCATLY what needs to change...luckily i have gotten over the "im not sure he can ever change" feelings...i know he can and he is showing me he can too...

ACTIONS - very true- that makes me feel better bc i agree 100%...i just wasnt sure if i should expect a movie line on a white horse with a hot air baloon ride into the sunset!

ha ha ha! i already feel ive gotten so much! im just really happy now...thanks TD- you made me feel much calmer!