I don't know where I belong (forum) so I guess I'll stick to Newcomers for one more thread. I have too many difficult decisions ahead of me and I won't allow trying to decide which forum to post in to paralyze me anymore today. Phew.

Life changes like this are overwhelming. Probably the saddest thing for me right at this moment is giving up my Magic Kumquat (for those that don't know, she's my little kitty I rescued last summer). And giving up my home. And the OM. The scariest think right now is... well it's all kind of scary. But, I'm hopeful about my future. I'm very grateful for many things. My husband is making a huge mistake letting this girl get away.

Love, Ms. Imp


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence