Quote: Jump through here and help me... How do you balance showing H that you are getting on with your life and show him that you forgive him, flirt with him, etc. How to pursue, but not pursue?
you show him that you are getting on with your life by starting to do things for yourself, things that make you happy, hobbies, friends, etc.
you show him that you forgive him by actually forgiving him...by letting go of any anger or resentment you hold toward him...when you do it will show in your actions and words..or even just in your tone.
how to flirt with him?
if you can flirt without actually flirting...discover his love language...is it words of affirmation? well then let him know when he's done a good job of something or thank him when he does something...
is it gifts..well then get him something but make sure that it is a practical needed useful item and not a gift perse'.
