so he can just show me or he should do both showing and telling?
IMO, if he shows you and doesn't tell you, that's the holy grail. I think people say things sometimes so they don't have to actually do the work to walk that path. I know I have...
Originally Posted By: pisces9
another thing that DR says is that your spouse will have to SHOW genuine empathy for what they put you through....
how does this show up? probably in a million differnt ways...
I don't know, but that may take awhile, especially because there is so much guilt on the part of the WAS and the pain they caused.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
