Right now, I think my H needs me to give him space, and be his friend, and cooperate with him on a legal S. Definitely he needs me to not be upset or disappointed with him, he needs to see that I'm OK, that I have my own life and happiness, and that I do not try to control or figure out or analyze his actions. I do think he needs to know that I still care about him, and am interested in his life, but not to a nosy or needy degree.
whats the latest with you and your H?
The latest is that he called me last night, and I let it go to voicemail. In the message he says he wants to come over tomorrow after I get off work to pick up some clothes. So, I waited about an hour and then texted him back that was fine. I'm planning on looking great, and being friendly, but also distracted. I think I may tell him I'm going out, not sure yet.
Anyone have any suggestions?
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
