Does a WAW want you to fight for them?

[cz946]

So this morning we had our first meeting with the FOC. Received our D day. Sept 18, ugg. We have been getting along rather well. Just being her friend, doing the LRT thing. So they ask if we had gone to marriage couseling, we both said no. They ask if there was a chance of working it out, she said no. I didn't answer.

Talk to the lawyer a little bit about the agreements, then we leave.
Then she sends me a couple emails about some head phones for her ipod. Almost fishing for me to say something about this morning.

I just answer her question.

Then she sends me an email telling me she is getting a new ipod and I can have her old one, but this time she add's at the bottom.
"How are you doing after this morning?"

I don't even know how to respond or if I should. Obviously I don't want a divorce, she knows that. I have told her for first 3 months of this. I am devistated!
Does she have a hidden agenda by asking me this question?