W decided to go ahead and begin her day out with coming down on me about the financial situation that 'we' are going through. What started it all off was she printed out a copy of our credit report and saw obviously not a very pretty picture. She starts yellin you haven't paid on a thing since the end of last year WTF were you thinking? I said I had no choice but to prioritize what was important at the point of when you decided what was yours and what was mine and wanted nothing to do with things.
Then she proceeded to say that I never informed her about anything about the finances, I said that is not true but given everything else you might have forgotten. What would I have to gain by not making you aware of our finances? She says this is BS and you never did and I don't believe you. I said look you are angry and pissed she says you bet I am I'm angry at myself for being so stupid, and angry at you for gettin us here, I said you aren't stupid, and I didn't do this on my own, she said well I must be cause I didn't pay attention or something.
She said she has an appointment with her L on Monday and wants all financial info, I said I thought we were in this together, she said oh won't that be fun both of us at my Divorce lawyer. I said you know what I can't talk to you when your like this and I won't either, I hope one day you will realize that maybe you might just be wrong.(yep backslide)
I think you guys have gotten a pretty good handle on what kind of guy I am, certainly not perfect as the lumps on my head can attest to, I have done things wrong in my R I have admitted them here and to W, but I never kept our finances from her it was an open book, I would ask her to help me with it and she would say no its okay I trust you (there is the kicker) her attitude was always one of well if there is money in the account I can spend it. Oh how so untrue.
