Sending positive vibes to my H!

[pisces9]

thanks LOST...
so he can just show me or he should do both showing and telling? i think he is VERY aware that if recommits we will never go through this again...we have been able to say how painful it has been...very lightly...here and there...it wasnt like we had a dicussion about it but its very clear that he doesnt want to ever go through this again either...

another thing that DR says is that your spouse will have to SHOW genuine empathy for what they put you through....

how does this show up? probably in a million differnt ways...