Jack you are the ice man. Maybe pray that I become an ice man. I mean Ice attitude. Nothing affects you.

Whosyamomma,

Quote:
You are responsible for your responses to her; she is not responsible for "provoking" you


Are you serious of course she is responsible for provoking me. I think you mean to say. I am responsible for responding to her, regardless of what she is doing. She knows she is provoking me. People are intelligent they know what they are doing. She wants to provoke me to get me to that point. Then they can say see how my husband acts.

She did nothing wrong. She's an angel. She was a good wife. Now she's playing the victim.

Whos, it really really stinks. I really think I like Jacks attitude. Wow it's my BSCMLCW, I'll wave again.

Can we add that to the accronyms? Bat-sh|t Crazy MLC wife. BSCMLCW

Here is what I don't get. Why is she still provoking me. She left. She moved out. That is what she wanted to do. She wants to fix her life without me. She wants to live in poverty. She should be happy right. So then why every time we do have an interaction I get venom.

I think there were a few days I had of jubilation with her. Like she was acting normal. Kind of sticking around, being nice. Talking about nothing. Sitting on the porch. Talking through the car window. She was smiling. Then boom back to anger 101.

Looks like we are switching through the steps of MLC.

AmyC, told me I need to go backward before I can go forward. Stay idle.

I told my wife I wasn't going to call her the B word anymore. So of course last night I used a different word. I'm surprised no one asked. King of the bad words...

I think I need to make a promise to myself to exclude those two words from my vocabulary.

You know I generally swear too much. There is one thing I never do and that is use the Lords name in vain.

I slipped about a year ago when my wife called me at work. I said JC what the F is wrong with you. I mean I never ever used the Lords name in vain. That is how mad she made me. I wanted to let her know how serious I was.

She found a fake finger nail in the dryer with my load of clothes and accused me of being with another woman. Maybe that is why she kept coming home to do laundry. Looking for another fake fingernail or some other evidence that there was someone else. She always accussed me of being with someone else. There never was someone else. There never will be any one else.

If this doesn't work out. I'm going to do something for the Church.