Take Away This Ball & Chain

[Sugar and Spice]

He origionally called to ask me what I thought he should do and my response was, "Well H, you have to do whatever works for you." He got kinda pissy and said,"Whats that supposed to mean."
It means what I said...duh. Do whatever you are going to do. He has to make money, because now he will have more bills than what he had before he did all of this and so taking a job that doesn't get any overtime or pay as well is pretty much out of the question. I know OW won't be going to live with him becuase her older kid won't want to leave her friends and OW can't quit her job, H isn't going to support her...

I dunno about the job. It's so hard to determine what will be helpful for your husband. He's such a mess now. I'm assuming he's too proud to seek therapy...?

I think he will seek therapy when there are no other choices. But this too is something he will have to figure out on his own.