H deep in A & MLC, need support 4 roller coaster!

[BeingMe]

Just caught up with your sitch, Dawn! Sorry to read of how your H is treating you. During my sitch, when I found out about the EA, I insisted that my H refrain from using our home phone, or space to keep in contact with OW. I had children to think of, however. I didn't want them overhearing him.

I do think you have a right to not have OW sleeping in your house. That is so disrespectful of you and the vows you and H made. I think he is sitting on the fence because he is probably not absolutely sure about the OW. She is young, and probably very insecure. Maybe, your H doesn't fear so much that your changes won't last, but that they will. So, he sits on the fence, eating his cake, and waiting to see how long you will keep up the changes.

Have any of you thought about going onto this SL game, and enticing your H's away from OW without them knowing it's you? You know your H's best, and you could possibly keep them dangling for years, until the MLC is over. Play them at their own game, IOW's. You could even set up a separate email account and have an ongoing A with them that way ... no phones of course, unless you know of a way to change your voice, and you would need a separate account for that. You could pretend you live in another country, making calls costly, and visiting even more so. You could send him fake 'pictures' of you. Ooooh! This would be so awesome.

Just a thought! A naughty one, but an intriguing one, perhaps?