What I found most helpful was GAL GAL GAL GAL. Stay busy, keep your mind occupied. It's hard to let go of those old hopes and dreams but eventually acceptance creeps in as a new and exciting future slowly reveils itself.
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Very good points........ The biggest part of my GAL post D was to meet different women..... It was VERY refreshing to see there were actually normal and sane women out there....... They were unlike my exW.....
Oh, yeah..... One of the funniest things was one of my single male coworkers LOVED hearing about the ladies I met..... He said, "I could NEVER do that. I just want to live vicariously through you." Of course, he meant meeting all of the ladies.... It never went beyond that.... I was a true gentleman....
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
