yes I am nuts...I claim it!! it's fun being nuts!!
anywho....
starting to think that maybe I'm off on what my love languages are...it sure isn't as easy to figure out as ya'd think.
I am noticing that I really really like when people compliment me (not simply physically), or ask my opinion (as if it's one they value), or affirm what I think or say or have done. or show pride in me.
hmmmmmmm?
I know we don't just have one or two love languages we have a combination of a few or more...trying to figure out just what goes where in that combination.
I think I've been wrong all along...certainly physical touch is a primary...but I think it ties into words of affirmation (ok ok so the affirmation is given physically) quality time is def still a big one...actually that probably is #1...followed in a close tie by physical touch and words of affirmation...I notice that when I clean the house or do something like paint a room I wait for people to comment and if they don't I point it out to hear their opinion...I do this to h all the time too.
hmmmm...just when you think you know yourself you meet yourself all over again.
