Thanks, Jeff. Yep, if she wouldn't leave the OM, you had to follow through with what you are doing/did. It makes sense.
I do think she will regret her decision. There are so many things she is confused about- her OCD tendencies, her role as a mother, role as a wife, what's important in life, even just being a good human being. I do feel sorry for her. If she never comes to reconcile with you, or if you are unable to give it to her, she has lost out on a life and husband that she will never again get in her lifetime. It's sad all around.
I am glad you have hope for the future. You are a fantastic dad and a good human being and you deserve happiness. Are you still going to church?
