Was having lunch w/ my S and he was telling me something about his dad, I told him about an exchange I had w/ him via TM the other day, and how I think he actually wanted to help me w/ something , ironically enough it was w/ an issue B and I had over the weekend! AS IF I would take advice from ex! lol
S said ya know he would be a good case study my dad. LOL
I almost feel sorry for ex at times, he supplies S and I w/a few laughs.
Anyway, sadly my ex MIL is not doing well, I feel bad, nothing against her, or "most" of his family lol , never got to say goodbye to her, after ex left we exchanged a few emails- she would tell me how much she missed my ex FIL-who had died a year before, anything about ex or us or our sit was off limits, very much an elephant in the room!
I dont like to think of it but when the time comes I do wonder how I would handle things when ex MIL is no longer w/ us ( i have a hard time saying dying before someone dies!) Silly thoughts I know but S and I were talking about it and he said sometimes he misses his grandma A. ;(
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Unreal to think of the scope of how divorce affects us. It is a huge all encompassing circle at times. Sad for your son because it shouldn't be that way.
You are right Trip In this case my ex MIL moved across the country w/ my ex SIL, so S dosnt get to see her, before that every blue moon , he would go to dinner w/ his dad and dads family.
oh btw, taking bets.
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