The road goes ever on...

[jon2911]

No. If she has several thousand coming in every month, she can certainly manage her money better. That's more than enough to pay her bills. Anything above and beyond her bills is not your responsibility. Next time she calls asking for help, tell her to go return some shoes.
Man, I'm snarky today. Didn't sleep last night. Sorry.

Yep, it's a weird turnaround

She has a car payment, credit card bills, and now $650/month rent. And no job. And she can't get one because her migraines are so bad.

I'm not sure about the natural gas money, but it was drying up as of March. So it might be almost gone now. She's already sold a lot of her clothes, shoes and stuff. I guess reality sucks sometimes. And to her family, this is still all my fault. I never made enough money for them. That perception may be changing now though...