Well here is a new little wrinkle to the already complicated saga that is my life. Apparently H maybe getting bumped off of his job. The company he works for utilizes statewide seniority and when/if they cut a job, the person who's job was cut can effectively take whatever job they choose, as long as the person occupying that job has less time than they do. So H is looking at his options and there is a good chance that he would not be able to get a job that keeps him home. This REALLY pisses me off because he has been home since November and has used this time to create this mess. ANYWAY. He asked me what my opinion is because it looks like he will have to work out of town again, which means he will be gone approx. 8days and home for 6. He is considering a job over on the desert (read the middle of nowhere) between Barstow & Vegas. This particular assignment comes with its own house (paid for by the company). My first comment was well, I don't think being that close to Vegas is a good thing for you and he replied that in California, you can gamble anywhere...he is right. If you are looking for it, you will find it. He then said it would be good because he could just go to work and afterwork go and work out (he has gained about 40-50lbs during this whole ordeal). I said well, maybe some solitude would be good, that he could use that time to get his head together and he agreed. I wish I could believe that, but I just don't anymore.
His R with OW began when he was working out of town, but he got the job here about 2 weeks after they started calling each other so she has never really had to deal with him being gone all of the time.
Never a dull moment though...
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option