Ya come to think of it when we talked...I did most of the talking Her answers were like multiple choice... A yes you did B its not you its me C I haven't loved you for years D all the above
The trap I fell into was having a question, but offering a choice of answers as well. Once I realized what I was doing I stopped offering her an easy list of answers, and she had to communicate. I was hard to stop offering up possible answers for her.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
