Be distant but loving here. I also have a very confused spouse. He tells other people something different than he says in front of me. He says he loves me and is confused.
Maybe I'm grasping at straws, but I see the confusion as a good thing.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.